What Kind of Guy are you?
What Kind of Guy are you?
To help you understand how you can transform yourself in to the alpha male that you’ve always wanted to be, it’s important to understand the type of man that society sees you as. I have broken guys up in to three different groups.
We’ve already discussed the Alpha, but by learning about the other types and by comparing them, you can take important lessons apply them to your life and how you are seen in the ‘pack’.
We’ve already discussed the Alpha, but by learning about the other types and by comparing them, you can take important lessons apply them to your life and how you are seen in the ‘pack’.
The Beta (aka ‘The Nice Guy’)
I’m sure you’ve heard the saying, ‘Nice guys finish last.’ We all know them; maybe you are ‘them’. He’s the kind of guy who has the desire to take control, but lacks the confidence needed to seize it. He may end up doing nothing about his desires because he is the planner, not a ‘doer’.
He may have waited months for the first kiss with the girl he’s been too cowardly to make a move on. Most of us can associate with being the guy who was always waiting for his girlfriend to do something without actually doing something about the situation.
These are the guys that usually get put in the infamous ‘Friend Zone’, and most of the time it’s not because they are unattractive or not ‘cool’ enough. It’s because they were too ‘nice’, they were assertive, or forward, enough to make sure that their intentions are known; especially with women. In the wild, the Betas are the members of the pack that are more comfortable following than leading.
This isn’t a bad thing; not everyone is a leader and every leader needs followers. In this case, however, they are highly indecisive, not assertive enough, and lack confidence. In the case of many women, it’s important for them to feel as safe and protected as possible. In the case of an Alpha verses a Beta, the Alpha is likely preferred because he
He may have waited months for the first kiss with the girl he’s been too cowardly to make a move on. Most of us can associate with being the guy who was always waiting for his girlfriend to do something without actually doing something about the situation.
These are the guys that usually get put in the infamous ‘Friend Zone’, and most of the time it’s not because they are unattractive or not ‘cool’ enough. It’s because they were too ‘nice’, they were assertive, or forward, enough to make sure that their intentions are known; especially with women. In the wild, the Betas are the members of the pack that are more comfortable following than leading.
This isn’t a bad thing; not everyone is a leader and every leader needs followers. In this case, however, they are highly indecisive, not assertive enough, and lack confidence. In the case of many women, it’s important for them to feel as safe and protected as possible. In the case of an Alpha verses a Beta, the Alpha is likely preferred because he
will provide more comfort and safety than a Beta will.
The Alpha’s personality attributes are what makes him more appealing, because he doesn’t lack the important decision making abilities and confidence to lead a family.
The Alpha’s personality attributes are what makes him more appealing, because he doesn’t lack the important decision making abilities and confidence to lead a family.
The Jerk
This is the guy that is always trying to start a fight. He doesn’t care about your feelings, is overly aggressive, very close minded, and is easily offended. He tends to be negative, and tries to make the people around him feel bad about themselves.
Jerks are the primitive version of an Alpha male; they may have a good sense of humor and even great social skills so people find them fairly fun to be around. They may be good looking, strong, or talented in a specific area. Their flaw is that they feel poorly about themselves in some area, and because of this, make everyone around them suffer for it.
They put others down, humiliate them, or worse, belittle them in an attempt to raise themselves up and make them look more powerful. A Beta that is trying too hard to be an Alpha, many times, comes off as a Jerk. He seems composed, but deep down has nothing in control.
The confidence of an Alpha stems from self-control where with a Jerk, it comes from putting others down. It’s not uncommon to find that Jerks tend to have a lot of girlfriends; this is because they appear to have all the qualities of an Alpha, with the exception of a mean streak that usually runs off women that don’t want to be abused.
Jerks are the primitive version of an Alpha male; they may have a good sense of humor and even great social skills so people find them fairly fun to be around. They may be good looking, strong, or talented in a specific area. Their flaw is that they feel poorly about themselves in some area, and because of this, make everyone around them suffer for it.
They put others down, humiliate them, or worse, belittle them in an attempt to raise themselves up and make them look more powerful. A Beta that is trying too hard to be an Alpha, many times, comes off as a Jerk. He seems composed, but deep down has nothing in control.
The confidence of an Alpha stems from self-control where with a Jerk, it comes from putting others down. It’s not uncommon to find that Jerks tend to have a lot of girlfriends; this is because they appear to have all the qualities of an Alpha, with the exception of a mean streak that usually runs off women that don’t want to be abused.
What kind of guys are you want to be?
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